value squeeze

another 'cheap' fortune cookie post:

if we are lucky, we get to find out what we value. we are very fortunate, if we find a life that allows us to live by those values. That is where we find harmony...or harmoney...or cheapony...

he who's values get squeezed, that is he who lives in an environment where his values get pressured or challenged, will forever be miserable.

within a relationship, fights usually erupt when these value disconnects are working themselves out. in time, harmony or a stable situation in which both people's sets of values can coexist will evolve if both people in the relationship express what they value. problems arise, when one person suppresses expression of values...